Disneyland with the Littles

Disneyland HK

Our kids are now 4 yrs old & 10 months old, and they’ve already been to Disneyland and/or Disneyland Hong Kong three times! If you count the times we did 2-Day passes, it actually amounts to five times.

We never meant for this to happen. I’m not Disney-obsessed. In fact, I’ve been known to even sometimes feign disgust over it’s overly sugary empire. But we do like amusement parks. And as it turns out, I must have a soft-spot for Disney.  We went in college during Spring Break; Mike and I went to Animal Kingdom in Orlando when it first opened. And here we are, with kids under five who’ve already been three different times.

The first time we did it, I just wanted the older child to have a different experience in LA, to try something just for him.  But then we got addicted to the wonder and joy it brought out in him. I actually cried the first time I watched him watch the parade.  (I know; I’m ridiculous.)

So, here are a few overall tips for going to Disneyland and then, just to help me remember these trips, here’s what we did each trip. Maybe it’ll help you set your own expectations for your family.

Tips for doing Disneyland with an infant and a preschooler:

  • Bring snacks. Disneyland allows outside food as long as it fits inside a reasonably-sized backpack or lunch bag, and it’s not in glass tupperware (exact dimensions are on their website). We never brought enough for an entire meal, but we’ve seen people who have.  We usually just bring drinks, fresh fruit, and all the dry snacks. We have a child who is highly motivated by food, so meltdowns can be thwarted with the promise of a snack. We used that to our advantage.
  • We took the biggest stroller we had.  To L.A., we brought the double stroller; to Hong Kong, we only had an umbrella stroller. Big stroller means more cargo space, so we also brought a picnic blanket (to sit and watch the parade), food, diaper bag, etc. The double stroller also meant we had a place to put baby down when we weren’t ergo-ing here. For a long day at a place like Disney, it’s always nice to have that option. Please note you cannot take strollers in line, so if your kid falls asleep in the stroller, you can take advantage of that by waiting in line somewhere.  There are plenty of designated spots for stroller parking (some more convenient than others). We often put a baby blanket over our stroller for easy spotting (there are hundreds of strollers!) and to keep it out of direct sun.
  • We usually ergo-ed the infant on rides or when waiting in line.  Disney has several rides where people of any height, including infants, can ride.  There are others with a height limit. In those instances, you can do rider-switch where one parents waits with baby then gets a turn on the ride.  We probably only used this option once or twice to be honest.
  • We had a diaper bag full of stuff (extra clothes, extra diapers for the little one, etc), but I also brought a small cross-body purse where I kept my phone, a small bottle of water, snacks, and the iPad.  That way I could just grab that bag for time spent in line. We mostly used MaxPass or FastPass for rides, but some rides like Peter Pan (which is the older child’s favorite and one we can all ride together) don’t have that option, so that means we will usually wait for at least 45 minutes.  Having access to an iPad and snacks and re-hydrating during that wait helped us pass the time.
  • Download the Disneyland App for the park you are visiting.  It’ll tell you wait times and give you a map allowing you to make some decisions before arriving to the ride itself.
  • Have a general plan. Check out the map, know which rides your kids can ride. Consider what you’d like to do, but be super flexible because…well, because KIDS.
  • Get the MaxPass (usable on your mobile phone via the app) and use FastPass whenever possible.  This will cut your wait times in over 1/2.  It’s worth it.
    MaxPass will give you a time slot when you can ride a ride via your phone. You don’t even have to go to the ride beforehand. You just show up during that window of time, and just walk right in.  FastPass is the older version: you go to the ride, get a ticket from the ride telling you when you can come back. Obviously not having to go to the ride line twice is much better. You go through the same, shorter line, but it’s just two different ways of gaining entrance to that short line!
    We LOVED the MaxPass.  I’m lucky to have a partner who is a planner. He would get the MaxPass for us while we were on one side of the park, so that once we got to the other side, we’d just walk right into whatever ride he thought we’d enjoy.  There were, of course, times when we didn’t get there in time, and we didn’t use all the MaxPasses we got. But Disneyland was also pretty great about having some flexibility and grace period if we missed the window by 10-15 minutes here and there. And we were comfortable with changing plans as needed.
  • If you have other adults with you, consider riding an adult ride if you enjoy that sort of thing.  Or, if you’re staying close by at a Disney resort, consider putting the kids to bed early, having grandparents or aunts/uncles watch them, and going back for night-time Disney which is magical in a whole different way! This isn’t always possible, but especially with several adults, it’s not impossible.

And now, so you have a realistic expectation of what you might get to do, here’s what I remember we got to do on our three different trips.

Disneyland: Summer 2017
(Kids’ Ages: 3 years+7 months and 2 months)
Disneyland LA first timeThis trip we ended up getting a 2-Day Pass.  We went almost all day on Day 1 and for a 1/2 Day on Day 2.
Day 1: (Hours stayed: ~12 hours!; Rides completed: 3??; Characters met: 4?; Rides waited for but not ridden: 2; Other experiences: 1 Parade & 1 Fireworks Show)
We went as early as we could, but it was still about 10:30am by the time we got into the park. We did stop to take a picture in front of the castle, but we basically went straight to the Peter Pan ride to beat the crowds and since it doesn’t have a Max or FastPass option. A potty-break followed and since Snow White & the Evil Queen were out taking pictures and the line wasn’t long, we stayed for a photo op.
We ate an early lunch somewhere nearby (but I can’t remember where or what.)
Then, we headed to Toon Town where the kid played on the play structures. This was our first time taking the kids to Disney, so we wanted to make sure to get those iconic photos. We got pictures with Mickey and Minnie Mouse and saw their little homes.
We then walked over to try and ride the Disneyland train, but after waiting over 40 minutes and not knowing when we’d get on, we gave up and comforted ourselves with ice cream and found a spot for the parade. (A note about the train: some people love it and say it’s a must-do. But no one is required to get off, so it’s hard to know how long the wait will be. We rode it on our second day and vowed it was not worth ever trying to do it again.)
We were about 45 minutes early for the parade, so we laid out our sleeping bag, ate some snacks, and rested.  The parade was magical. Watching the older kid get so excited and into it was so awesome. I think this very well may be why I keep wanting to go.
Next ride was It’s a Small World.  Kid loved it and sang the song long afterwards.
We then headed to Tomorrowland hoping the kid would ride the Astroblaster ride, but he was a little too afraid, so we had another snack from the restaurant there.
Then we rode the monorail to Downtown Disney to meet friends for dinner at the Earl of Sandwich.
We walked back to Disneyland for the fireworks which were awesome. What a magical ending to a magical, full, but exhausting day!
Day 2: (Hours stayed: ~5 hours; Rides completed: 3?, but we rode 1 ride 3 times!; Characters met: 5?)
This day, we stayed on the other side of the park: Adventureland/Frontierland/Critter Country, etc. The first thing we did was ride that darn train! There was almost no line, so we waited what we were told would be about 15 minutes, but it took over 40 yet again. But we did actually ride it this time. We did one whole loop + a stop getting off at Critter Country. Baby girl had a diaper blow out on the train, so I changed her diaper AND clothes on that train.
After getting off at Critter Country, we rode the Winnie the Pooh ride and then met all the Winnie the Pooh characters to take pictures with them (Pooh, Tigger, Piglet, etc….) The kid loved the Winnie the Pooh ride so much, and it’s such a “kiddie ride” with hardly any line, that we actually rode it three times that day!
Lunch was at the Hungry Bear restaurant.
We also rode the kid’s first “real” roller coaster: Thunder Mountain Railroad! I got to do this with him, and it was awesome.  He was just 40″ which is the height limit.
We also had Dole Whip (yum!), and the kid & his dad rode the ferry to the Pirate’s Lair on Tom Sawyer Island for some free play.
We left the park early that day, but we were all wiped out any way. The kid passed out in his stroller on our way out and napped all the way home.

Disneyland: Winter 2017
(Kids’ Ages: 3 years+11 months and 6 months)
(Hours stayed: ~12 hours; Rides completed: 14!!, but we rode some rides several times; Characters met: 0; Other experiences: some musical show at the Golden Horseshoe Restaurant)
We went back to Disneyland during our winter trip to LA and caught the park decorated for the Christmas holidays which is a special experience in and of itself.

We only went for one, full day and made a plan to have the older kid nap in a stroller, so he wouldn’t be so over-tired at the end of the day.  We were warned about the crowds during the holidays (peak time!), and yes, there were definitely more people and waiting then we were used to, but between MaxPass and flexibility, we were able to make good use of our time.  I mean, the kid somehow rode 14 rides!
After a quick pause to take a picture in front of the giant Christmas tree, our first ride was “Finding Nemo,” an underwater, submarine ride.  It was different and cute.
Then, we successfully got the kid to actually ride “Astroblasters”  (he was too afraid last time). Dad & son did some driving at “Autopia” which the kid loved so much, he did it again with me later that night after dinner.
While I grabbed a table and food with the baby in Tomorrowland, dad & son went on “Star Tours”. We got a rider switch for this but never ended up using it.  I’ll just have to check it out another time.
Then we went on “It’s a Small World” and watched the parade.
Post-parade, we found the least-crowded, least-stimulating walkways and walked the kid around in the stroller and sure enough, he fell alseep! Parents got some caffeine and pastries while the child slept. He probably got about an hour’s nap and would’ve slept longer if we hadn’t tried to carry him into a line.
We tried to sneak him asleep into the line for “Peter Pan”. He woke up, though, and waited using the iPad for his favorite ride.
Between his nap and dinner get a little fuzzy.  We rode “It’s a Small World” another time; Did we ride “Thunder Mountain Railroad”?  We definitely saw that silly singing show at the Golden Horseshoe Restaurant while the kid snacked and we indulged in Dole Whip.
Dinner was at Downtown Disney again with the same friends and at the same place, always good to connect with friends and watch our kids play.
Then we took the Monorail back sitting in the first car which was a whole different experience! The Monorail dropped us off right by “Autopia,” so we did that again.
We wanted to watch Fantasia, but the kid was feeling strangely afraid of fireworks this trip (he seemed to like them last time), so instead, we did a few rounds of “Winnie the Pooh.”
After Winnie the Pooh, we were on our way out of the park when we saw the “Dumbo” had a short line.  So we did “Dumbo” making it our 14th and final ride.  Now, again, I don’t remember how we got to 14, but a facebook post from that trip says 14, and I trust that more than my memory 6 months later!
Disneyland for the holidays is beautiful and packed and can still be fun with some planning and patience!

Disneyland Hong Kong: Spring 2018
(Kids’ Ages: 4 years+ 3 months and 10 months)
When we decided to go to Hong Kong to introduce the family to the baby, we decided to go ahead and go to Disneyland in Hong Kong, too! We knew it’d be similar, but our cousins were willing to come along with us, and prices were better than in the states, so we decided to just do it!
We got a 2 Day Pass this time AND stayed at the Hong Kong Disneyland Hollywood Hotel between those two days. For dinner after the first day, we went to a Character Buffet with pretty decent food and where Mickey, Minnie, Goofy, and Pluto come around to say hello to the diners! So fun!
Mickey Mouse HK
Day 1: (Hours stayed: ~4 hours; Rides completed: 2; Characters met: 3 (but THE BEST ONES according to the kid; Other experiences: 1 Parade, Swimming at the hotel pool, & Character Buffet Dinner)
We went to Hong Kong’s Disneyland using public transportation. There’s a special train that takes you to the park, and it is adorable! Of course it is…it’s Disney.
We didn’t plan to take too long at the park. We just wanted to get there, do a few things, then check in to our hotel and use its amenities. Hong Kong’s Disneyland has a more developed Marvel Universe, and the older kid is really into superheroes, so we really focused on that for this day.
We arrived and went first to the “Iron Man” ride. Baby girl wasn’t allowed on, so dad & son went on this while we waited. Afterwards, we met and took pictures with Groot who happened to be out, and then we lined up to meet Iron Man himself. The kid was pretty hungry and impatient during the wait, but it was so worth it. He later said it was his favorite part of the day.
Lunch followed, and it was an Iron Man-themed lunch; we even splurged for the special Iron Man collector’s cup. After eating, we walked over to Adventureland because we heard Black Panther would be there.  Sure enough, we were first in line to meet him, and it was such a cool experience. “Wakanda Forever!”
We rode the “Jungle Cruise” afterwards.  And then it was perfect time to grab a spot for the parade, so we got ice cream and sat down.  After watching the parade, we made our way to the hotel.  The first thing we did at the hotel after checking in was put the kid down for a nap.  He slept for over two hours!
Baby girl and I went for a swim, and by the time the oldest was awake, it was darker and chillier, and he didn’t want to swim. He watched me and dad swim while grandparents played with the baby. Then, we all showered and went to dinner with grandparents and an aunt.
Dinner was pretty good (sushi was available!), and all the little character-themed food was too cute.  It wasn’t cheap, though, so I’m glad it was such a positive experience with each character taking the time to take photos with each table and etc.
We slept fairly well at the hotel (They provided a crib and guard rails for one of the beds), and it was just nice to be so close to the action!

Day 2:   (Hours stayed: ~10 hours; Rides completed: 3-5 depending on who you are; Characters met: 1; Other experiences: 1 Festival of the Lion King & 1 Becoming Iron Man Experience)
This was Mike’s birthday! He got a pin that said “Birthday Boy” from Disney, but he didn’t wear it.
We woke up earlier than the park opened (didn’t open until 10am!), so we went to the hotel’s game room to play. It was a free space with games and toys and a perfect way to spend our time while Mike checked us out.
Then we rode the shuttle bus to the park, and I took the older kid to meet Iron Man again while Mike & baby waited for everyone to show up.  Once everyone got there, and the kid & I had met Iron Man again, we had a loooooong lunch with the family.  There were five kids and seven adults, so everything just took longer overall.
After lunch, some of the adults and bigger kids went on the Iron Man ride while the rest of us waited.  Then, our child wanted to do the Iron Man experience where you are digitally made into Iron Man and then put into a video game where you can blast things, so Mike and baby waited with him while I and the rest of the cousins went to see the parade.
After the parade, we walked around hoping some of the kids would nap, but they didn’t.  So we walked over to “It’s a Small World” and enjoyed the air conditioning of that ride.  We were lucky enough to have a Priority Pass, so we didn’t have to wait too long.
Then, we all shared in an ice cream break!
Afterwards, we walked around again, trying to nap some of the kiddos, but only one fell asleep! We did walk through Toy Story Land which is unique to Hong Kong, and it is really well done and cool to just look.
We got to the Festival of the Lion King about 45 minutes before the show began, so most of us went in to wait and watch. It was a good show – a little loud but exciting and entertaining.
Then, most of us rode the Winnie the Pooh ride while one dad was on the train with a sleeping kid!
After Winnie the Pooh, one family went home, and the rest of us ate dinner together. After dinner, three adults left three kids with two adults to go ride a 42″ or taller ride: Big Grizzly Mountain Runaway Mine Cars.  It was surprisingly fun, even after just having eaten dinner.
The kid wanted to ride Winnie the Pooh again, so everyone else left for home while we went once more on Winnie the Pooh.
We left at about 7:30, right before the evening lights parade began, and we made good time back to MongKok.
This was probably the least “efficient” day we’ve ever had at Disneyland, but we got such good quality time with our extended family and their kids.  That was really the point any way, so all that time spent just walking and eating were the real highlights. Having the kids experience some new things in the midst of it all was just an additional plus!

If you’re heading to Disneyland with kids under five, best of luck with all the logistics and details and planning! We’ve enjoyed each visit we’ve made and have learned to be  flexible and savor the small moments where they’re just captivated or delighted by the experience.  And, trust me, they will be!

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Maundy Thursday Foot Washing

I was asked to speak at a Holy Thursday Vigil and Foot Washing outside of the ICE building today. Here’s what I meant to say (what I actually said was much shorter and repetitive because that’s what happens when I decide to scrap the careful notes I’ve prepared!)

Good afternoon. I’m Joann Lee, one of the pastors at Calvary Presbyterian Church here in San Francisco. And Sarah asked me to speak about the significance of foot-washing in the Christian tradition.

There’s no better day to talk about this than today as we celebrate Maundy Thursday.  “Maundy” comes from the Latin phrasemandatum novum meaning “new commandment.”

And this “new commandment” was really just a sum of all the commandments that had come before: to love one another.

Jesus demonstrated this love on that first Maundy Thursday by washing the feet of his disciples.

It was unexpected and uncomfortable to some of his disciples that their teacher, their leader would kneel before them and so intimately serve and care for them in this way.

But Jesus shows them through his example that any power or privilege we may hold is to be set aside or to be used in service for others, to show God’s love and to show God’s upside-down justice to the world where the first shall be last and the last shall be first; where the powerful are made weak, the meek are made strong.

This stole I’m wearing is to actually remind pastors in my tradition, that our duty and role is first and foremost to serve and to love. It represents the towel that Jesus wore around his neck as he washed his disciples’ feet.

The act of foot-washing, then, is symbolic of mutual and sacrificial love.
It is a sign of humility and of service, BUT it is also a form of resistance. A way to reject the ways of the world that tell us fear, violence, brutality, might and strength will save us. Jesus shows us that love and care and concern for others can and will ultimately bring about the transformation this world so desperately needs; it is a radical way to bring about wholeness and justice in the world.

Today, outside this ICE building, where so much harm and trauma is done to the bodies and souls of immigrants in this country, we come to wash the feet of these, our sisters and brothers who are suffering.

We hope and pray that it is a balm, a source of healing, respite, and strength.

And through this ancient ritual we honor immigrant community members who are leading us and showing us what justice looks like.

As people of faith, we stand with immigrants.
And this is one way we can outwardly show that we see, support, and love these individuals and their families.
This is one way we can outwardly show that we do not support the unjust systems and structures that continue to oppress and dehumanize those who are created in the image of God.

Christians today believe we are called to be the hands and feet of Christ, and Jesus chose to use his hands to wash the feet of his disciples and through that great act of love, to usher in God’s justice and peace that would turn the world upside down.

That’s why we do this; to simply follow Christ’s example the best we can.

And there’s no better day than today, and no better place than here to be doing so.

So thanks to Sarah and your team at the Interfaith Movement for Human Integrity for providing this opportunity.

And thanks to our fearless and tireless immigrant leaders and families.
It is a privilege to be here with you all, taking part in this sacred ritual.

However, this is my prayer:
That there will be a day when symbolic acts like this are no longer necessary, because decent human kindness will prevail, God’s justice and love will prevail, and sensible immigration reform will pass. And one day, may this kind of human suffering will be a thing of the past.

We hope and long and, most importantly, work for that day.

But until that day, for days like these, we will continue to come together, continue to show up, continue to pray and serve, and work together for that day.

Stickers, snuggles, and no sleep

These are the days….

  • of stickers showing up all over my stuff and clothing
  • of early morning snuggles with the kids in bed, one of whom patters in with his “lambie” and a blanket in his arms
  • of late night feedings even when the baby probably doesn’t need it because the “working mom guilt” is strong, and she still asks for it
  • of snot and germs being passed around and around and around
  • of playgrounds and libraries and mostly unstructured weekends
  • of ergos and strollers and baby wipes, none of which we can leave home without
  • of kisses and hugs and singing at the top of our lungs
  • of always running late, of always forgetting something, of always feeling a little tired
  • of belly laughs, and sweet giggles, and ear to ear smiles

4 years old and 7 months old: I never want to forget these precious, harried, exhausting, yet joy-filled days.

Bailey: 11/30/2003 – 1/9/2018

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:

a time to be born, and a time to die;

a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;

a time to kill, and a time to heal;

a time to break down, and a time to build up;

a time to weep, and a time to laugh;

a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;

a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

a time to seek, and a time to lose;

a time to keep, and a time to throw away;

a time to tear, and a time to sew;

a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

a time to love, and a time to hate;

a time for war, and a time for peace.

For our Bailey, today was a time to die. And for us, today is a time to mourn, to embrace, and to weep.

We let Bailey go today. In her last moments, she did what she loved most: ate treats.

Then, as she died, she seemed at first really peaceful and then finally at rest.

We loved her. I think she knew that.

Bailey was never an easy dog. She was a wild and crazy puppy. And then, in her prime, she developed epilepsy. Her seizure meds really slowed her down, and she got really big for a while as a result. Once we changed her medication dosage, though, she lost weight and acted more like her self. She got old and slow soon afterwards, though.

I’m pretty sure her epilepsy caused some neurological damage. She had some strange and weird ticks that were exacerbated in her last days.

Bailey lived in five cities and eight homes with us. She was there before Mike and I were married, before Logan or the kids joined us. She was tolerant and accepted these changes, but I swear she rolled her eyes at us sometimes.

Bailey used to jump: into water bowls, into people’s arms and laps, into Lake Michigan, and over puppy gates. She lost the ability to jump like that a while ago.

But two things she never stopped doing were eating and cuddling.

Bailey loved to eat. Food motivated her and brought out a drive and fixation in her that was surprising, even in her last moments.

Bailey burrowed under covers and loved to cuddle. Her favorite spot was on your lap, under a blanket. Sometimes, she’d force her way into your lap, knocking over laptops or babies that also happened to be there.

Bailey nurtured the nurturer in me. She (with Mike’s help) taught me about commitment and follow-through. She helped me love better and deeper. And, through her death, she taught me how to let go.

I believe she is finally resting in peace. And being with her transition from life to death was an unexpected comfort.

Rest now, Bailey. Thank you for these last 14 years.

All about Rose: Your First Thanksgiving

Dear Rose,

It’s your first Thanksgiving with us on this side of the womb. This time last year I was pregnant with you and just starting to tell some family and close friends about you.

Happy Thanksgiving, baby girl! This year, I am so grateful for you.

You joined us during an interesting and hectic time in our lives, arriving in the midst of so much change and transition. But your presence reminds me to slow down and to “zoom out” to really appreciate what matters.

You are a wonder to behold. When you smile, your entire body gets into it- your feet kick, your arms flail, and your whole face lights up. You are also very vocal – so much to say for such a little one.

You’re so easy at home, independent and able to sleep on your own when we put you down. You’re an amazing self-soother- the thumb sucking helps, I think!

When we’re out, you’re still pretty easy, but I’ve noticed you have your limit with people. You tolerate being passed around and having several faces in your face for a little bit, but then you’re so over it.

These days, you’re constantly rolling over and putting everything in your mouth. Five months is a fun time. You interact and smile and coo and even sometimes shriek for joy.

My favorite part of the day with you is walking over to your crib in the morning and being greeted with your big smile. I swear, your brother didn’t sleep as well as you, and he was never thrilled to wake up. He’s still a little grumpy after waking up.

But you. I get the sweetest, most warm smiles from you in the morning, even if I’m the one who’s waking you up!

Watching you and this life we’re making together fills me with gratitude. I hope you find this kind of profound joy in your life, too. I’m the luckiest, most thankful mom today. I love you, sweet Rose.

Happy first Thanksgiving. May your life be filled with much to be thankful for.

Love,

엄마

Home

The concept of “home” has never been straight-forward for me. I’ve lived in six different cities and many different apartments and rentals within each city. All these places feel a little like home.

Perhaps one of the advantages of a nomadic adulthood is that I do feel at home in many places. And yet, I don’t feel fully at home anywhere. That’s mostly good, I think, to remember that we are all just sojourners, that we really ultimately belong to God and find our home in God.

But recently, we moved. With a newborn and three year old, two dogs, two grandparents, and me & Mike, we moved to a new home in San Francisco. It’s a single family home where both kids have their own room, and there’s an in-law unit, so Mike’s parents can have more space. We’re so lucky to be able to do this, and I’m grateful Calvary for helping make it happen.

It was one ugly house on one of the busiest streets in San Francisco. But the day we walked in, Mike and I knew it could work. We saw its potential, and we’ve been making it feel more and more like home ever since we got the call that they’d accept our offer.

Since then, it’s gotten a lot prettier- a lot of work and decisions that mostly Mike made which I just get to enjoy. He’s got an eye for interior and exterior decorating that I just don’t seem to have.

I am overwhelmed with gratitude that we get to live here, even when weird electrical wiring confuses us or the old plumbing goes awry. This is home, for now any way. And our children will grow up here for at least a little while.

One of our projects was to make our backyard more livable and low maintenance. This included putting in a large slab of concrete in the middle for bike and scooter riding or basketball dribbling and chair sitting.

Our contractors poured the concrete today, and I had this sudden idea to write our names in the concrete. I’ve always wanted to do that- it seems so subversive and like you’re making a mark in time that’ll be there for generations. Since it’s our own backyard, it’s not illegal, also less subversive, I suppose.

The guys let me know when it was best to do it. I wish I could’ve had the kids make hand prints, but they said it would’ve been too hard by the time they got home this afternoon.

So I just did it. It was harder to write on concrete than I thought. And I didn’t have a lot of time to give it much thought or line it up all that well apparently.

But it makes me smile to see our little mark in the backyard knowing that it’ll be there until someone decides to pull up the concrete. This is our home.

And this little gesture really cemented it into reality (pun intended, obviously).

Lost in Translation

One day, Austin will most likely grow up and pronounce all his words the way the rest of us do.

But for now, his “L”s sound like “W”s and he drops the “S” when a consonant follows. It is an adorable marker of his preschool days that I already know I’ll miss.

Sometimes I just plain cannot understand him. But he’s really great at describing what he means or using a synonym to help me.

Two examples:

(1) He kept saying something was ‘Cary and I didn’t understand him. Then he said, “I was afraid!” Ohhhhhh.

(2). He says, “I washt Catwoman.”

Me trying to figure it out: “You washed her? You was her, like pretended to be her? You washed her in the tub?”

Then he said, “No. I cannot find her.” Ohhhhhh. You LOST her.

One day, so much won’t get lost in translation. But for now, I will soak in the sweet ways he says certain words like:

yellow (wewwow)

Spider-Man (piderman)

Stop (‘top)

I love you (I wuv you)

I understand (I unner’tand)

Twinkle twinkle little star (twinkle twinkle wittle ‘tar)

Brave (bwave)

Listen (wisten)

❤️ you, my little talkative man with all the adorable words.